What does love look like? It has the hands to help others. It has the feet to hasten to the poor and needy. It has eyes to see misery and want. It has the ears to hear the sighs and sorrows of men. That is what love looks like.
If you believe what you like in the gospels, and reject what you don't like, it is not the gospel you believe, but yourself.
The Bible was composed in such a way that as beginners mature, its meaning grows with them.